You Can’t Care

Me against me

This didn’t happen over night and it’s not for anyone but me.

It’s this long crazy process, I’ve been going through and growing from.

Investigating my weaknesses, my fears and all the areas of my life that have made me uncomfortable and insecure.

I dug in and found out that I’m gonna have to work. I’m going to have to leave the past in the past. I don’t care about the skeletons in the closet or the monster under the bed anymore.

Being an authentic person WILL piss people off. Being a go getter, doing hard things, being a tough person; who says what they mean, will get you judged by others around you. Who cares!

I’ve mistakenly cared too much of what the world and it’s everyday person feels about me. It has stopped me from my truth too times.

What I’ve discovered is I am not like anyone else! I don’t have to care about another’s opinion of me. I don’t get defensive and offensive because I don’t care. I will NOT hold their junk and make it mine.

People will crush your accomplishments, stop you from pursuing your goals and try to create insecurities in you because they know they aren’t you and they can’t do what you can.

Misery loves company but I won’t join. No one will project their insecurities onto me or inject my mind with their negativity! It’s me versus me and it always has been.

I don’t care anymore what anyone has to say. You’re either a fan or you’re not.

Understand this doesn’t mean I’m not listening. Oh, I’m ready to listen and always prepared to evolve but no one can beat me but me.

Life is a great big journey and it’s about doing hard things, pursuing a better version of yourself, being prepared to help and number one- keep moving forward!

This is freedom and it feels good!

Sk

4 thoughts on “You Can’t Care

  1. A excellent declaration for moving forward. I often say, what you had said in so many words, time out for people pleasing. I too discovered, that I am stuck with me, others can walk or run away. But since i am stuck with me I might as well get over people and learn to like and love me. This requires work, because from birth we been seeking attention and doing things to be approved. Good for you! that is real freedom you are declaring. A better you, makes for a better world, regardless of what anyone says!

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      1. You are welcome, I enjoy the fellowship my friend. You have been a big encouragement to me! What I say is not flattery, it is truth. and I totally agree about the “right” people will find you on your own path. Meeting at the crossroads of life.

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